10 Wrong Assumptions People Have Made About Me

"Assumptions are the termites of relationships."
― Henry Winkler

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1. I'm a bitch. I've got RBF, and yes, sometimes I've got the attitude but that is only when someone annoys the shit out of me or is just a complete idiot. I mean, I think I'm a nice person - I'm sure Israel didn't marry me because I'm a bitch.
2. I'm oriental. I'm Filipino but I'm always getting mistaken for being Chinese or Vietnamese. 99.9% of the time, when someone asks me what nationality I am or tries to guess it, they'll most likely guess Chinese or Vietnamese. In my whole life span, I think only one person guessed it right and that was one the second try.
3. I can speak another language. Just because I'm Filipino, people assume I can speak Tagalog. I don't know a lick of it, my mom didn't want to teach us when we were little. She always spoke to us in English and only English.
4. Because I'm blonde, I'm ashamed of my culture. I'm blonde because I like it, but I've had a couple older people ask me if I was ashamed to be Asian and wanted to be more "white". That's not the case at all, I think blonde hair suits me better and I've worked really hard to get my hair light, so why would I just dye my hair back to black and regret it? And besides, I don't know very much about my culture to be ashamed of it. I don't even know the dialect.
5. I'm high maintenance. I like expensive things and I've overheard people thinking I'm high maintenance. But I'm not, or at least not in my eyes. I don't expect the things I get, I work for it.

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6. I'm not talkative. It's not that fact that I'm not talkative but I get anixety around people I don't know. I never know how to make small talk and I start to stress out. So I just sit around and keep to myself.
7. That I didn't care about my wedding. Just because I didn't want to show up other people at my wedding doesn't mean I didn't care about it. I mean, even before everyone flew down to the Dominican Republic last year, Israel and I were already married for 6 months! It's not that I didn't care, I just knew how much I already loved Israel and I didn't need a big, fancy wedding to prove it.
8. Israel buys me everything. Don't get my wrong, Israel will spoil me when he can but that doesn't mean he buys me everything I want because he makes more money than me. I work as well and I'll spoil myself when I deserve it.
9. That I wouldn't like video games or anime. I'm the biggest nerd EVER. I love vidoe games and anime, I will literally stay up all night doing either.
10. That I'm full of myself. I've heard that people think I'm full of myself because I take photos of myself. Well hello, what the hell is a selfie? Or any type of photo for that matter?! I mean, you're still taking a photo of yourself. I just like showcasing my outfits and writing blog posts. Stop being such a moron.

What are some assumptions people have made about you!?



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